BDSM

Being Empowered During Sissy Encounters

For many women the world of sissy dating is a tricky one to navigate. Finding a man who wants to empower his female partner as much as he wants to explore his own sissy pleasure is rare, but I promise that they are out there! I’ve been in the BDSM scene for many years and had several sissy playmates in that time, so I’d like to provide some tips on how to stay empowered during these scenes!

The first thing I guess we should talk about is what sissy play is. Essentially it is play that revolves around a man dressing in women’s clothes, and sometimes also pretending to be a woman. Generally the sissy partner is the submissive in the scene, and their dominant partner can be male or female.

Many women struggle to get their head around men wanting to play as sissies, because often this kind of desire comes from a real hatred of women. The problem is that some men associate women as being “weak” or “pathetic” and so dressing up as a woman during sex allows them to take on those characteristics.

Now, we know that women aren’t weak or pathetic, so the first thing I want you to do to empower yourself is just ditch those men. Pass them by on dating sites. You don’t need that kind of hatred and negativity in your life.

That said, there are many sissy men who are instead interested in exploring some of the restrictions that women’s roles and clothes forced on them. There’s no denying that women’s clothes have been restrictive in the past; short skirts demand certain behaviour to retain your modesty, and high heels prevent you moving anywhere at speed! Many men see the items themselves as a way to be restricted during submissive play and this is a great approach to take.

There’s also the benefit that underwear and clothing designed for women tends to be more sensual than underwear designed for men. Some men genuinely just enjoy wearing beautiful fabrics that enhance sexual touch. Tight silk underwear is both exciting to wear and exciting to be touched through – just ask most sexually liberated women! Many sissy men are of the opinion that women shouldn’t get all the fun in this department…

Acting The Part

So once you’ve got a handsome man in a delightfully restrictive pair of high heels and some sexy silk underwear, what are you going to do with him?

Well, the sky really is the limit here, just like it is with regular Subs and Doms! I like my gorgeous sissy boys to fix me drinks and do menial chores while I relax. It puts them in a great mindset for the submissive role before they even make it into the bedroom. Once we’re in the bedroom I like to concentrate on the restrictions and sensations of their new sissy clothes.

What I do try to stay away from is references to them being weak, pathetic, or somehow less of a man because they’re wearing women’s clothes or taking on a submissive role. How can I empower myself as a woman if I am degrading myself by proxy?

I like the men I play with to be highly masculine, but I also like it when they are confident enough to embrace sensual fabrics and clothes traditionally associated with women. After all, if high heels make a woman’s legs look better, don’t they do the same to the legs of a man?

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